Thursday, October 06, 2005

What to do...

what do u do when you've done something wrong?
the first instinct is to run away and hide
the second is to face up to it.

what happens when you face up to something and the consequence is major.
The outcome isn't good and you've gone through pain for it.
then, you do something even worse... do you still face up to it?
You know the consequence will be even worse.
But not to own up and to try and conceal it will make it even worse than facing the consequence.

It isn't really a choice- it's more of a decision as to when to have the consequence... now or in the future.

There is more chance of a recovery and a quicker patch up if done now.
But when there's a lot of hurt and pain already, should we keep aiming at making the wound deeper?
And then pour salt in it?

They say the salt will clean out the impurities. But they only tell you afterwards that it will be excruciating.

I've been told they call it character building.

1 comment:

Laney said...

i know i said what if a lot... and if you do that you'll never get anywhere but what if you just jump in and then regret it... is it better to get burnt or to think about it and be cautious? i'm sure you know what I'm talking about..